Parenting is a full-time responsibility of raising a child from birth up until they have reached adulthood. There is not any "perfect" parenting although there is "ideal" and "good" parenting which are skills that can be learned as well as with experience. And yes, with the occasional mistake.
The best parenting is all about relationship, the better your relationship with your child is, the better your chances are in becoming an effective parent.
Availability
Being around your child every time he needs you give them thoughts that they are important because they really are. You should dedicate a reasonable amount of time with your child. It is not enough that you are at home all day and think that you are doing well as a parent. When I mention about time, I mean quality time. Bond with your children, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you have to spend money. You can just watch his favorite TV show together or perhaps watch him as he play his video game. Because what you may not know is that your time spells L-O-V-E for children.
Appreciation
Appreciation is the most powerful drive towards a good behavior. If a child does well, express overwhelming appreciation right away because when we appreciate them, it gives them a sense of worth. Show appreciation even in the simplest things they do. If you ask them to get something, immediately say thank you with a smile and let them feel that they have been a great help. Just like you, your child find ways to impress you that’s why it would be best be pleased about it. The more we appreciate their good deeds, the more motivated they will become in behaving better.
Affection
All of us wants to be loved, especially children. They continually find ways for them to be lovable. They are thirsty for your affection that’s why they find ways to catch your attention. You must always remember that love is the foundation of a lasting relationship. So, if you are nuts about good parenting, start by showing oodles of affection because if they don’t get it from you, they will find love somewhere else.
Acceptance
Showing unconditional acceptance provides your child a sense of belonging and security. Accept and be grateful for who he is. You are his parent, his own flesh and blood. If you can’t accept him the way he is, nobody else will.
Good parenting can never be learned anywhere. It is within you. Although books and numerous resources are readily available, but always remember that they are not made to alter your actions as a parent. They only serve as guidelines. Good parenting still lies in your hands.
The Truth About Lying
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Clear Expectations Make Discipline Easier
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Do As I Say And As I Do
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The Keys To Effective Discipline
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Chores Can Help Your Child Learn About Teamwork And A Strong Work Ethic
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Tactics For Tackling A Toddlers Temper Tantrum
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Positive Discipline Without Hurting Your Child
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Encourage Your Child To Feel Important
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Constructing Your Childs Healthy Sense Of Self Esteem
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Our Ever Changing Role As A Parent
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Harsh Discipline Does It Do More Harm Than Good
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Consistency Is Key To Successful Discipline
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The Whys Of Whining
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Training The Fussy Eater
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Providing A Safe And Secure Home For Your Child
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Encouraging Play Encourages A Childs Development
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Handling Conflict About Rules Enforcement At Home
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You Cant Spoil A Child Through Love
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Postive Praise For Your Childs Pride
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The Importance Of A Regular Routine To Your Child
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Building Your Childs Self Esteem
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Expect Only The Best From Your Child
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The Importance Of Crystal Clear Rules For Your Child
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Childs Uniqueness
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Because Just Isnt The Answer
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Chart Your Childs Accomplishments With A Chore Chart
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Interrupt Your Childs Interruption Habit
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Successful Two Way Communications With Your Child
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Productive And Positive Potty Training
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Take The Bite Out Of Your Toddlers Biting Problem
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Actively Listening To Your Child
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The Detrimental Effects Of Verbal Abuse And How To Stop The Cycle
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Teach Your Child To Give Respect And They Will Gain Respect In Return
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Get Involved In Your Childs Activities Hobbies And School
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Parenting Tip
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Physical Punishment Is Ineffective And Harmful
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Negotiating Rules
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Teen Parenting
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Teach Children To Respect By Treating Them With Respect
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Hobbies Are Healthy
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Time Outs Help Reinforce Positive Behavior And Discourage Misbehaving
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The Family That Eats Together Stays Healthy Together
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Follow Thorugh Is The Key To Successful Discipline
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Help Your Child Kick The Thumbsucking Habit
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Protect Your Childs Emotional Well Being
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Present A Unified Parental Front When Disciplining Your Child
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Control Your Anger Don't Let It Control You
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Connect With Your Child But Dont Overdo It
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Learn From Your Mistakes And So Will Your Child
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The Positive Influence Of Being Involved In Your Childs Education
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Celebrate Your Childs Uniqueness
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